How Site Works

Welcome [wlm_firstname]!

This is the course introduction page. You will only see this page upon login and for the first week only. If this is the first time you are seeing this page, please read to the end. You will need this information to understand how the course works and how to navigate the website. If you’ve read through already, please click here to proceed to content for this week.

I want to begin by letting you know that I can relate to what you are going through. I’ve been through that hell and back — a few times actually. It’s no place any one wants to be, but here you are, all you can do now is get though it. I want to help, and have put together for you information, resources and tools that provide a healthy response to broken promises and lost dreams. Rather than tell you what to do with the “left over you”, the e-Course shows you how to draw out your inborn capacity for emotional resilience, and bounce back better and more ready to love authentically and boldly.

My hope is that your experience on this site will be as healing and nurturing as possible.

Username and Password

Sharing your username and password is prohibited. You will receive a system generated email informing you “login limit is exceeded”, but if our system detects sharing of account more than once, we will cancel your membership.

Enter your username and password associated with your account to reset your password.

Access to Content

This is an online course, which means that all content is read on the website — nothing to download or mail. Because it is a weekly course, it also means that you do not have access to all the material/content at once. You have access to only the content for the week/level you are paid for. In week one, you have access to one week’s content (level 1). In week 2, you have access to more advanced content and more in week 3 until you complete all the 4 weeks.  It starts from the basics and gets more advanced as the weeks go on.

I’m aware that this is going to be hard for some of you because the NEED TO KNOW and know NOW, and the NEED TO HAVE and have NOW is part of the needy and clingy MO. But if you are sincere about wanting to unlearn neediness and clinginess, then waiting until the next week “to know” and “to “have” is good practice.

Each week has it’s own set of topics to help in your healing and growth. When you click on the first topic of the week, you’ll see to your right “This Week’s Topics”, a listing of the topics covered for the week you are registered for.

Content is arranged in such a way that each post is a continuation from the last post. This is to ensure that you are learning and healing all at the same time. Please click on the “next topic’ at the end of the article to go to the next topic or “previous topic” to go back. However, depending on your device, the previous and next topic function sometimes does not work well. To make sure you read ALL the articles for the week, please refer to “This Week’s Topics” on the right, and click the next article on the list. That way you don’t skip some articles and miss out on the information and tools.

Please check your purchase email address for weekly update notifications. You can also log in to the site using your log information to access the most recent posts.

Older Content

You do not lose access to content you already paid for and have access to. To view previously accessed content, click on “Content Area” on the menu.


Change requires ongoing effort and action. It’s not enough to just read material and keep it at the “mental” level. Commit sometime doing the exercises that have been designed to draw out YOUR own inner wisdom.

Know Yourself Quizzes

While it may seem like a waste of time, the quizzes are useful in showing you how you act and react to certain situations and also at showing you how you feel about yourself.

Community Support:

Having people who care and support you  and sharing your true feelings is an important part of healing and growth. It’ll help a lot to visit the ” Message Board” as often as possible.

Email support:

After you complete the 4 weeks, you can ask me 2 email questions related to your healing and growth. This course is about stopping break-up neediness and not about getting back your ex, so please NO questions about “how to get back your ex”. If you want to ask questions regarding getting back with your ex, please go to my Ask The Love Doctor blog and post your question there, or consider signing up one-on-one phone coaching.

Help on how to get back your ex is a separate service — and not part of this course.

As a member who has completed 4 weeks of the course, you are entitled to 20% discount on all coaching packages.  After you complete the course, email me requesting your discount and I’ll send you the link to make payment.

Due to the volume of emails, please make your question brief, 750 words or a couple of paragraphs. I’ll do my best to respond as quickly as possible.

Please click here to access content for this week.